I had measured and mixed the dough ingredients and was just about to proceed with the rolling and frying when Sam came in and asked if he could help. I said "sure", handed him the rolling pin and (with one ear toward him in case he needed help) I went and turned the heat on the pan.
Sam knew he could do it; and he was pleased with his new skill and proud to contribute to the making of a family meal.
I am excited about the idea of relinquishing more of the process of making tortillas to Sam next time, so long as he is keen and interested. From measuring ingredients to mixing the dough just right, to setting the timer to let the dough rest, to rolling out and then frying.
Knowing Sam, it would likely fulfill his need to feel valued and capable; for learning and autonomy; and for contributing to the whole family. For me, I'm happy that I may soon be free to just concentrate on making the soup and I do so enjoy watching little hands work. Who doesn't like a little help in the kitchen?
So awesome and inspiring!!! Way to go Krista and Super-Sammy! (That's Bikram's nick-name for you)
ReplyDeleteIt's wonderful how learning a new skill can help to fulfill needs on many different levels for different people. Further evidence of how we're all connected. Sam's needs for contribution and learning being met while your need for more ease in the kitchen and to nurture the development of your children. If we looked we could likely find that Kale and Hillary are also having needs met by Sam's development. Learning is so VITAL!!!
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